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(The Nervous System Doesn’t Just Choose a Person , It Chooses a Landscape)Most people think they are choosing a partner.They analyse traits.Compatibility.Values.Attraction.But something far quieter is happening underneath.The nervous system is not choosing a person.It is c...
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Before you had language,you had atmosphere.Before you had opinions,you had tone.Before you had identity,you had a nervous system adapting to the emotional climate around you.And that climate does not disappear just because you grow up.It becomes familiar.And what is familiar...
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